So much has happened in the past year that I've not posted. And surprisingly I realize I never really posted about a lot of things even between my earlier posts. It's not that these posts are the most important things happening in my life. The ones from college definitely aren't. Random thoughts and experiences that don't make me too emotional are the ones which I write about. It's always when I'm thinking about something while studying - my mind digresses, train of thought takes me to something hiding in my subconscious mind and there, it jumps at me, and I find I've written my annual or bi-annual blog post.
Anyway.. I'm not writing for anyone but myself, so no one misses it. But just reading my posts makes me want to write, and write every day or every time I'm moved by something even in a small way. My original reason to post today was because I was making a study guide for my class with my macbook on the right and notes on the left and I remembered that I learnt the correct style side of painting as a righty (3D on the left ahead and canvas on the right right in front of you) in my art class, my school has almost dissolved it's visual arts program. Recently, an alum at a seminar wrote about how blogging helped her land a job without interviewing at the company and that was somewhere in my subconscious mind because hey.. I blog (barely) and even though I write posts only for myself, I felt it was time to write something. I wanted to write a testament to what all I learnt in my art class that applied not only to art but things that I use even in my concentrations and daily life.
But, of course - I signed in and curiosity made me want to read what I had written before and now I want to post about my personal life as well.
How are things? I ask myself. It's not odd to ask yourself that. My school is recently obsessing over self awareness but knowing moi required me to know how moi feels and only moi knows that. It' really not something you answer truthfully to others. I mean I've said "Great" a gazillion times. Are things really great? Umm maybe. They've been good at times, but also pretty crappy. But is that a question people really want to hear an answer to? No. I mean how many times do you really want to know? Crossing a friend in the corridor he says "hey, how are you?" "great, great! you?" "great!" and you're almost out of earshot by the time he replies. Do you really care? No, it's small talk, it's formality, it's normal behavior.
But then again.... if they really cared, and they asked, are you willing to tell them? Explain the problems, expose the vulnerabilities? Depends, on who asks and who it's asked to. Some people will vomit their burdens out, others might just say "great!" again.
I recently grabbed dinner with a girl-friend after a long time who recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years. He graduated but she still goes to college here. Popular as a couple, their relationship status was known to even teachers they interacted with. So naturally when she sees those professors walking by, they ask "Hows whatshisnamedoing in graduate school?" Can you guess the answer she gives? "He's great! loving it back in LA!" Hmmm. Is she feigning a relationship? NO. She's just avoiding an awkward conversation with a professor while crossing him in a busy school building. She doesn't want to do this right now or with this person. She doesn't want to explain her problem and expose her vulnerability.
And that's okay.
And here is what makes this post kind of redundant - we know this. We want this.
We know that we don't want to ask/answer these questions. Sometimes it's better to not know whether they're "great" or they're "great". It's okay to not to be so vocal as long as it's not sending you into depression or leaving you with not potential somebody to talk to if and when you want to. Your emotions don't have to be an open book if you prefer them not to be. It's not even lying, it's just.. being passive
But we don't realize that human communication has become so robotic that we aren't even aware of what we're saying - what questions we ask / what assumptions we make / what we mean by words we use?
I hate myself - yes yes hate is a strong word, whatever. I would hate myself if I ever say something like "that's retarded" or "that's lame" or "that's so gay". <-- and="" br="" disgusting="" is="" just="" mean="" that="" unnecessary.=""> Even the phrase "that's awesome". We completely overuse that word awesome. That pepperoni pizza is NOT awe inspiring. It's tasty, it might be sumptuous, but, it cannot be awe-inspiring! A mountain in the gleaming morning sun with it's snowy lofty peaks reaching up into the fog and the valleys hidden behind a double rainbow - that is awesome.... so English is technically my second first-language and yes, I do make a lot of errors myself, but at least I don't find my new shade of peach nail polish awesome...
We senselessly use words and phrases and give too much or too less of a meaning to them. Writing "great" all over this blog has made it lose meaning to me. Great, great! great? greaattttt.....
Great! the word great just lost all meaning. Similarly, with the phrases above...
Anyway... I was digressing as usual...
Like I said, my school is recently obsessing over self awareness - but knowing moi requires me to know how moi feels.
So,
I ask myself again,
how am I?
Greaaaatttt-->
Anyway.. I'm not writing for anyone but myself, so no one misses it. But just reading my posts makes me want to write, and write every day or every time I'm moved by something even in a small way. My original reason to post today was because I was making a study guide for my class with my macbook on the right and notes on the left and I remembered that I learnt the correct style side of painting as a righty (3D on the left ahead and canvas on the right right in front of you) in my art class, my school has almost dissolved it's visual arts program. Recently, an alum at a seminar wrote about how blogging helped her land a job without interviewing at the company and that was somewhere in my subconscious mind because hey.. I blog (barely) and even though I write posts only for myself, I felt it was time to write something. I wanted to write a testament to what all I learnt in my art class that applied not only to art but things that I use even in my concentrations and daily life.
But, of course - I signed in and curiosity made me want to read what I had written before and now I want to post about my personal life as well.
How are things? I ask myself. It's not odd to ask yourself that. My school is recently obsessing over self awareness but knowing moi required me to know how moi feels and only moi knows that. It' really not something you answer truthfully to others. I mean I've said "Great" a gazillion times. Are things really great? Umm maybe. They've been good at times, but also pretty crappy. But is that a question people really want to hear an answer to? No. I mean how many times do you really want to know? Crossing a friend in the corridor he says "hey, how are you?" "great, great! you?" "great!" and you're almost out of earshot by the time he replies. Do you really care? No, it's small talk, it's formality, it's normal behavior.
But then again.... if they really cared, and they asked, are you willing to tell them? Explain the problems, expose the vulnerabilities? Depends, on who asks and who it's asked to. Some people will vomit their burdens out, others might just say "great!" again.
I recently grabbed dinner with a girl-friend after a long time who recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years. He graduated but she still goes to college here. Popular as a couple, their relationship status was known to even teachers they interacted with. So naturally when she sees those professors walking by, they ask "Hows whatshisname
And that's okay.
And here is what makes this post kind of redundant - we know this. We want this.
We know that we don't want to ask/answer these questions. Sometimes it's better to not know whether they're "great" or they're "great". It's okay to not to be so vocal as long as it's not sending you into depression or leaving you with not potential somebody to talk to if and when you want to. Your emotions don't have to be an open book if you prefer them not to be. It's not even lying, it's just.. being passive
But we don't realize that human communication has become so robotic that we aren't even aware of what we're saying - what questions we ask / what assumptions we make / what we mean by words we use?
I hate myself - yes yes hate is a strong word, whatever. I would hate myself if I ever say something like "that's retarded" or "that's lame" or "that's so gay". <-- and="" br="" disgusting="" is="" just="" mean="" that="" unnecessary.=""> Even the phrase "that's awesome". We completely overuse that word awesome. That pepperoni pizza is NOT awe inspiring. It's tasty, it might be sumptuous, but, it cannot be awe-inspiring! A mountain in the gleaming morning sun with it's snowy lofty peaks reaching up into the fog and the valleys hidden behind a double rainbow - that is awesome.... so English is technically my second first-language and yes, I do make a lot of errors myself, but at least I don't find my new shade of peach nail polish awesome...
We senselessly use words and phrases and give too much or too less of a meaning to them. Writing "great" all over this blog has made it lose meaning to me. Great, great! great? greaattttt.....
Great! the word great just lost all meaning. Similarly, with the phrases above...
Anyway... I was digressing as usual...
Like I said, my school is recently obsessing over self awareness - but knowing moi requires me to know how moi feels.
So,
I ask myself again,
how am I?
Greaaaatttt-->